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I initially felt some excitement at the thought but now feel very uncomfortable about embarking on meaningless affairs. Am I being too demanding of my wife? My wife and I have been together for about 10 years, and it has always been pretty clear that we have different sexual tempos; I want far more sex than she does. However, she went on to say that she would be fine if I wanted to go out and have meaningless sex myself. After my initial reaction a slight frisson of excitement, I must admit I found myself quite put out by the suggestion.
Am I being too demanding? Should I bring this up with her?
Or should I take her up on her offer and try sleeping around to fill that sexual need? When a partner gives this kind of permission they do not always mean it, and rarely think it through.
Aside from the physical risks, there are plenty of emotional and relationship hazards. It could damage your relationship. Your first idea is the wisest — to confirm your desire for your wife and begin to seek ways to interest and engage her more.
There are a of reasons why a person might not match a partner in libido; some are fixable, while others need to be investigated. Seek help together to understand if there is a hormonal, relational, psychological or physiological reason for your desire mismatch. Pamela Stephenson Connolly is a US-based psychotherapist who specialises in treating sexual disorders. If you would like advice from Pamela on sexual matters, send us a brief description of your concerns to private.
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My wife says she has a low sex drive and suggested I sleep with other people. Is that really wise?